This is the first in a regular series about Team Superstars runners who will participate in the Medtronic Twin Cities Marathon on Oct. 4 on behalf of Children’s inaugural charity running team. Learn more and join here.
What do you think of when you hear “Children’s Hospitals and Clinics of Minnesota”? To me, Children’s is a place that played a beautiful and integral part of my family’s life in March 2012.
It was a Sunday I will never forget. I was having my lunch when the phone rang. My daughter, Katie, was calling to tell me news no one wants to hear. My 21-month-old grandson, Rowan, had gone into cardiac arrest. After 35 minutes of the paramedics trying to revive him, they got his heart beating, and he was on his way to North Memorial Medical Center. After frantically driving to pick up his twin brothers, Josh and Holden, we learned that Rowan had been transferred to Children’s. I knew immediately that no matter the outcome, he would receive the best care.
As the day transpired, and we arrived at the hospital, we were hopeful but realistic. Being without oxygen or a heartbeat for that long could not be good. Our worst fears were realized when the doctors told us that indeed Rowan’s brain was badly damaged from the oxygen deprivation. The doctors and nurses were absolutely fabulous as they walked my daughter and her husband, Taylor, through the last day of Rowan’s life. They were treated with incredible compassion and respect as they made decisions that no young parents should ever have to make. As each family member came to say goodbye to Rowan, we were shown such love by the staff, especially the nurses. Their final gift to Rowan was a beautiful quilt that his body was wrapped in after he died. Even in death, the thoughtfulness of Children’s shined through. Although our family was only at Children’s for a little more than a day, the memory of their care will stay with me for a lifetime.
I began running in 2002, so after Rowan’s death, it was good therapy for me to hit the pavement. As the miles passed under my feet, I found great comfort and the “road was a good listener.” Knowing that I had increased my mileage as a way to deal with the grief and its aftermath, my brother encouraged me to run a half-marathon with him. I thought that there was no way I could do it, but I am very competitive, so I took him up on the offer. I ran two half-marathons that year, and I loved every minute of it!
Grief comes in waves, and it really hit me hard in late 2013, so I increased my running. Somewhere in all those miles, I decided that I wanted to run the Medtronic Twin Cities Marathon. Fast forward to October 2014, and as I was lining up in downtown Minneapolis, I looked up and saw Hennepin County Medical Center, the hospital where Rowan was born. Tears filled my eyes as I realized that I was actually doing this and that I had made it through this challenge. So on Oct. 5, I completed my first marathon! To say it was one of the best days of my life would be an understatement. The crowds, the course, the weather and my family all came together that day. I knew as soon as I crossed the finish line that I would do it again.
One of the most inspirational parts of the Twin Cities Marathon is the charity teams. Not only do they support each other through training and raise funds for their cause, but they are there for each other throughout the race. I knew that I had to be part of a team. When I heard about Team Superstars, there was no doubt in my mind that this was for me; what a great way to honor the memory of my grandson, Rowan, and to show support for Children’s.
So, my “Team Superstars” adventure begins. I am excited to raise funds and to be part of an awesome team. I look forward with great anticipation to Oct. 4, when I will run the Twin Cities Marathon as part of Team Superstars. I know that Rowan’s memory and spirit of Children’s will be with me the entire way.