While social media can be beneficial in many ways, there is no denying that it has also negatively impacted the mental health of kids and teens everywhere. In May 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy, released an advisory highlighting the harms of social media on youth mental health.
When talking about if social media is safe for kids, Dr. Murthy said, “We are in the middle of a national youth mental health crisis, and I am concerned that social media is an important driver of that crisis – one that we must urgently address.”
Below are five risks that were highlighted in Dr. Murthy’s advisory that parents should be aware of when allowing or considering letting their child use social media.
Social media has made it easy for kids and teens to be exposed to harmful, inappropriate and hate-based content, such as self-harm acts, social media challenges and racist content. Two of the main ways that kids can come across inappropriate content are by the type of videos or posts that show up on their feed and when things are shared through messages by peers or strangers online.
With social media, it is easy to compare yourself to others in a time where it has gotten hard to tell if something has been edited or filtered, and when you are seeing peers post the best version of themselves or a highlight reel of their life. If you feel your life doesn’t match that, it can lead to mental health issues like low self-esteem, depression, body dissatisfaction, eating disorders and more.
The goal of tech companies is to increase engagement and make users stay on their app for as long as possible. Some of the ways tech companies do this are by taking user data to make their algorithm more engaging and by having addictive features such as the like button, which triggers the same dopamine pathways as chemical addictions. You can read more about how likes are addictive here.
Another risk on social media is that people with bad intentions can target young children to exploit them. This is often done through the messaging feature on apps.
Anyone on social media can try and send messages to other accounts. It’s important to go over the privacy setting of your child’s accounts with them and make sure people who they don’t know aren’t following them. And depending on the app, you might be able to restrict who can send messages to your child’s account.
Adolescents and teens need both good quality and lots of sleep for healthy development. However, excessive use of social media can disrupt sleep patterns and cause poor sleep. If you have a child that is having a hard time falling asleep at night or not getting quality sleep, you can read more about sleeping tips for kids of all ages here.
Social media is a world of endless possibilities, and it can be a great place for community, support and learning.
Social media can be a great tool for finding and building a community of people that have similar values or interests to you. This can also help kids form friendships that they may not have the opportunity to in real life.
Social support is something that can also be gained from social media. For youth in marginalized groups, this can have a positive impact on their mental health and help them feel less alone in their experiences or struggles.
With so much new information being shared online daily, social media can be a good starting point to learning about new things and current events.
Social media will impact every child differently. Below are some common signs to look out for if you think your child is struggling from too much social media use.
If your child is on social media or you’re considering allowing them to use social media, the American Psychological Association (APA) released a list of 10 social media recommendations that suggest parents closely monitor their kids’ usage, talk to them about the digital world and set expectations before allowing them to be on social media.
Ask your child about social media. It can be as simple as asking what is trending or what their favorite type of content to watch is. Occasionally, you can also watch your child’s TikTok “for you” page or recommended YouTube videos to see the type of content that is popping up for them.
Before allowing your child to be on social media, talk to them about the dangers of social media in an age-appropriate way and remind them to let you know if they see anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. Keeping an open dialogue about this can also help you stay on top of the type of content your child is seeing and if social media has been a positive experience for them.
Social media expectations can look different for every family, but below are some popular rules that you can start off with.
At Children’s Minnesota, we understand how hard it can be to access mental health resources. If your child is struggling with their mental health or social media use, the following resources may be a good starting point for help.