Bed-Sharing

Why Is Bed-Sharing Unsafe?

In some cultures, bed-sharing is common and the number of infant deaths related to it is low. Differences in mattresses, bedding, and other cultural practices may account for the lower risk in these countries.

But health experts warn parents not to place their infants to sleep in adult beds due to serious safety risks. Bed-sharing increases the chance of suffocation, strangulation, and SIDS.

An adult bed has many safety risks for a baby, including:

• suffocation from a soft mattress, memory foam, waterbed, or loose or soft bedding such as pillows, blankets, or quilts
• entrapment and suffocation when an infant gets trapped or wedged between a mattress and headboard, wall, or other object
• strangulation in a bed frame that allows part of an infant's body to pass through an area while trapping the baby's head, or from dangling cords

Babies should always be placed to sleep on their backs on a firm mattress or other firm sleep surface (such as in a portable crib) without any pillows, blankets, toys, stuffed animals, or other items.

Because of the risks involved, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) warn against bed-sharing. The AAP does recommend the practice of room-sharing without bed-sharing. Sleeping in the parents' room but on a separate surface lowers a baby's risk of SIDS.

Bed-Sharing & SIDS

Bed-sharing increases a baby's risk of dying from SIDS, especially in preterm infants (preemies), babies who had a low birth weight, and healthy full-term infants younger than 4 months old.

Other things that increase this risk of death while bed-sharing include:

• a baby sleeping on a couch alone or with a parent
• a baby sleeping between two parents
• a mother who smokes
• parents who are very tired
• a parent who has recently used alcohol or drugs
• bed-sharing with pillows or bedcovers
• bed-sharing with other children

How Can We Room-Share Safely?

To keep your little one close, but not in your bed, put a bassinet, play yard, or crib next to your bed. This lets you keep that desired closeness, which can be especially important if you're breastfeeding. Having an infant sleep in a separate space in the same room as the mother reduces the risk of SIDS. You also might consider a bedside sleeper, which attaches to your bed, letting you and your baby be next to each other but on separate surfaces.

Make sure that all sleep surfaces and products you use to help your baby sleep have been approved by the CPSC and meet federal safety standards.

Experts recommend that infants sleep in their parents' room without bed-sharing until their first birthday. If parents prefer to move the baby to another bedroom, it's best to wait until the child is at least 6 months old.

How to Bed-Share as Safely as Possible

Some parents decide bed-sharing is best for their family despite the risks. If you choose to have your baby in bed with you, follow these precautions:

• Always place your baby on their back to sleep to reduce the risk of SIDS.
• Dress your baby in minimal clothing to avoid overheating.
• Offer a pacifier to your baby at sleep time, but don’t force it. If the pacifier falls out during sleep, you don’t have to replace it.
• If you swaddle your baby and the baby starts trying to roll over, stop swaddling.
• Don't place your baby to sleep alone in an adult bed.
• Don't place your baby on a soft surface to sleep, such as a soft mattress, sofa, or waterbed. Make sure your bed's mattress is firm.
• Make sure your bed's headboard and footboard don't have openings or cutouts that could trap your baby's head.
• Make sure your mattress fits snugly in the bed frame so that your baby won't become trapped between the frame and the mattress.
• Don't cover your baby's head while they're sleeping.
• Don't have pillows, comforters, quilts, and other soft or plush items on the bed. You can dress your baby in a sleeper instead of using blankets.
• Don't place your bed near draperies or blinds where your child could be get caught in and strangled by cords.
• Don't fall asleep with your baby on your chest.
• Don't sleep on couches, recliners, or rockers with your baby.
• Don’t use weighted blankets, sleepers, or swaddles on or around your baby.
  

Also:

• Don’t let your baby fall asleep on a product that isn’t specifically designed for sleeping babies, such as a sitting device (like a car seat), a feeding pillow (like the Boppy pillow), or an infant lounger (like the Dock-a-Tot, Podster, and Bummzie). 
• Don’t use products or devices that claim to lower the risk of SIDS, such as sleep positioners (like wedges or incliners) or monitors that can detect a baby’s heart rate and breathing pattern. No known products can actually do this.
• Don't smoke, drink alcohol, or use medicines or drugs that can make you less alert or keep you from waking up.

Avoid bed-sharing with infants who are at greatest risk of SIDs. This includes those younger than 4 months, preterm babies, and those who had a low birth weight.